OOOOOHHHHH I HATE HIM SO MUCH I JUST WANT TO POP HIS F**KING HEAD OFF HIS BODY AND STOMP ALL OVER IT!
Here's the situation...my daughter's "dad", Travis. Long story, but I will do what I can so you can get the general idea. We met, started dating, he moved in, I got pregnant, we had our daughter, she is now 4, and he has ALWAYS been just a "part-time" dad. I have a son who is 12 from a previous relationship...he treated him allright considering he was a first time dad. He's only 26...I know, I know...that's what I get for dating someone younger than me...but hey, you live and learn. When my daughter was a baby, he was gone every single night. His cousin lived right up the street from us, so he was always there hanging out, playing video/computer games, and getting high. Fine, whatever! Then, when I try to mention it to him that he needs to spend more time at home with me and the kids...he blows up and I become a bitch in his eyes! Fine, whatever there too! I know I'm a bitch! BUT...if you can't tell my I'm the best bitch you've ever met.....then DON'T CALL ME A BITCH! Ladies...am I right? Thank you! Anyways, after 7 years of putting up with his never wanting to help out around the house (cleaning, dishes, laundry, etc), and never having a steady job the entire 7 years we were together, I had enough. I told him he needed to get his shit together and stop waisting his life away. He went into the Army to "better our lives" but the only life he bettered was his own! All I got out of it was a heartache when he fucked around on me during his deployment to Fort Sill, Oklahoma and Fort Riley, Kansas! I know...I should have just left his ass then, but I stayed for the sake of my kids. So, January 1st of this year...after staying out all night for New Years, he informs me that he needs to "find himself before our relationship can go any further" he said "because the way things are going, we are at a stand still"!? WHAT THE F**K KIND OF HORSE SH*T IS THAT? WE HAVE A DAUGHTER TOGETHER AND YOU WANT TO WALK OUT NOW???????? HELLO????????? Okay, fine...move out...whatever makes you more of a man because obviously, your'e not becoming one living here with your "family". So, he moved in with his cousin (that used to live up the street from us) in Raytown. Not a big deal, he was still seeing Jaelynn (our daughter) every day almost because he was working here in Independence and he would just pick her up from school everyday and bring her home or take her to my mom if I was working late. Well, when he moved, we had a 3 bdrm townhouse...I didn't want to stay there if it was just me and the kids, so I downsized so I could afford it...now we have a small apartment. The Monday after he helped me move, he got fired from his job because he said he "set his alarm for PM instead of AM". Okay, well no big deal...find another job! His cousin that he lives with still works at that company and he carts his ass back and forth to work everyday...so instead of driving all the way back to Raytown, he comes here since it's just 5 min. away. I figured, okay...helps me out in the mornings, I don't have to get the kids off to school...he's here and can do it after I leave for work! Sounded good at first. Now, everyday, I come home from work to him on my couch or in MY bed sleeping or playing Jordan's (my 12 yr old son) X Box and eating my food! Well, tonight, I asked him if he could wash up the two pans he used for his lunch and I would make us some dinner. He had the BALLS to say "Sorry, I still don't do dishes!" Motherf**ker, if you EAT here, you WILL do the dishes! I'm NOT your mother and I won't clean up after your ass anymore! I did it for 7 LONG years and I'll be damned if I'm going to do it and you're not living here anymore! F**K THAT SH*T!!!!!!!!!
Well, I'm done ranting...there's more to the story, but I'm too pissed and my hands are now cramping because I'm typing so fast! LOL!More tomorrow!Susan.